Being a parent is the greatest blessing in a person's life..

Thank you for visiting my blog.. :) There is so much to say about my identity as "Pranav's mother" than my self identity as Prabha or rather I should say, I enjoy being Pranav's mom better than anything else.. . I started this blog to share all my pleasant surprises and shocks (??!! ) that my bundle of joy Pranav gives me almost everyday.. :) He is almost 8 years old now.. and he never stops amazing me since the day he was born.. :)

The real fun of being a parent and trying to make a difference in your child's life can be thought as the underlying motive.. but then, I would also like to share few of my own thoughts irrespective of being Pranav's mom.. :) read on... :) please do leave a comment if you feel like... :)

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

So you don't follow what you teach me..?!!

Yeah :), Pranav asked me this question one day.. here is the story.. and yeah here is the little intro before we get into the actual episode.. As I wrote in my first and foremost post.. there is a small routine both of us do sometimes at bed time, thats learning poems from sumatI Satakamu and vEmana Satakamu.. I taught him few poems and one of them is a poem from sumatI Satakamu and it goes like this ..

vinadagunevvaru cheppina
viniantane vEgapaDaka vivarimpadagun
kani kalla nijamu telisina
manujuDepO neetiparuDu mahilO sumatI !!

meaning.. listen to all that people had to tell you, but you need to see and analyze it yourself before accepting it as truth. A person who can differentiate truth and falsehood by directly looking at the facts oneself is considered to be an ideal one.

He learned this poem a while ago, about 2 months .. yeah the actual story begins here.. myself and Pranav were driving back to home from some place on a Saturday night, and we were passing by a movie theater in which a Telugu movie King, starring Nagarjuna, was playing.

Then Pranav asked me.. "amma.. king movie chUddaamaa?" meaning "shall we go watch King movie?" I said "naannaa movie baagaalEDaTa, vaddulE" meaning "it seems the movie is not good, so let's not watch it", then he asked me "evaru cheppaaru neeku?" ("Who told you?") I replied to him saying that one of my colleagues had watched the movie and said it wasn't so good.. then he immediately said.. "anTE.. evarEm cheptE adi nammEstaavaa nuvvu? nuvvu veLLi chUsi adi nijamO kaadO telusukOvaa ? vinadagu nevvaru cheppina vininantane vEgapaDaka vivarimpadagun, kani kalla nijamu telisina manujuDepO neetiparuDu mahilO sumatI, so nuvvu neetiparuDu kaadu pO!!" meaning "So you would believe in everything that is told to you? Will you not go and see yourself and find out if it is true?" and he recited the whole poem and said.."you are not an ideal person.." and he looked away seriously.. I just broke into laughter and was continuously laughing for 5 minutes.. coz his expression was so serious and he was not smiling at all :)

Sometimes we can really be cornered with the morals we teach our kids.. as I said parenting is the sweetest thing and also the toughest... :)

4 comments:

Vijaya Shendarkar said...

Hi Prabha,

Very beautifully said..

Vijaya Shendarkar

Prabha said...

Thank you Vijaya :) who is Nishanth Augustin...

Me Inc said...

This is a gud one ! I need to brace myself for all these :)

Prabha said...

yup Haritha.. :) how much ever we prepare for that.. we will always be caught unaware at some point... :)